i continue to be saddened by the fact that i am married to such a selfish man.. i want to know if i am the only wife who has no say when it comes to using the house she lives in for activities including other people.. .
let me explain.. yesterday my daugher who is 35 got a new puppy for my grandaughter who is 13. today my daughter and son in law are going to help my uncle at a job, and my granddaughter wanted to spend the day here, my daugher said shed bring her and the puppy over, i laughed and said 'your dad wont have that, ill have to go to your house'.. after all it will 'upset' the 2 cats they will hide all day [like they do anytime someone including my grandchild is in my home] .. i already knew that he would not like it if she brought the puppy over, [weve had dogs so its not like he hates them].
he doesnt care if his grandaughter would have enjoyed playing with the puppy over grandmas house, where she likes to be for a change, and that fact that id like to see what my cats would do when they saw a dog for the first time in thier lives.. maybe id have liked to play with the puppy .. when i said to my husband that my daughter said she wanted tp bring them over he said.
Sowhatnow,
After having read your situation, I feel as though my marital issues are nothing. Venting helps, so we are here to read on.
Well, there is some consolation in the fact that women outlive men for the most part. Take good care of yourself in hopes that he will croak first and then you will enjoy some years doing what you please after that.
SL
https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=7mars2mtaui.
to funny nice job....
I loved the composure everybody else maintained. Very dignified indeed.
What a jerk!!!
SL
scenerio.
your daughter gets pregnant.
your little girl whom you've invested your life and love.
Six weeks or less into a pregnancy is nothing more than a blood clot inside the uterus. Sometimes a prolonged, very strenuous run will act as a detacher from the uterus wall and then the girl will just get a heavy, longer than usual period.
SL
scenerio.
your daughter gets pregnant.
your little girl whom you've invested your life and love.
I still feel that as long as this formation is nothing more than a clump of blood, without a heart beat or a nerve system, have at it. Solve your problem. By the way, was it negligence on the parents' part to allow a young girl to become preggers? Hmmmm?
Better sex ed and supervision next time!!!
SL
this is my first post here though i've been a long time lurker.
my story in a nutshell:.
started having doubts after the new silver sword and watchtower study regarding overlapping generations.
what is the wackiest...strangest....most unusual jw teaching or practice?
The equivalent to Catholic infant baptism, letting children make the decision to get baptized when they are not even done growing up! This last assembly, a 12 year old girl took the dunk and you could just tell she did not even know what kind of commitment she was signing up for. Preposterous!
How dare they criticize any other religion where the infants or very young are baptized?!
SL
last year when i went to distribute memorial invitation, i had a bad time talking to a house-holder who happened to be an ex-nun.
she said: you are wasting your time.
jesus had no idea that his death would have a sin-atoning value (which is of course a later invention by later theologians.
Did not invite a single soul!!! Great accomplishment indeed!
SL
i was deleted as the cobe after i let my adult child move back home and he admitted that he fornicated under my roof while my wife and i where away on a rbc project.
of course the elder mode in me kicked him out of the house.. the elders moved quickly to remove me because i was too involved in "theocractic activities", i had neglected my adult son.. i accepted this primarily because i didn't want to serve with a boe that did not want me.
i was devastated however because it was the only life i knew.
Welcome!
SL
(1 corinthians 11:23-25) ".......that the lord jesus on the night on which he was going to be betrayed took a loaf, 24 and after giving thanks, he broke it and said: "this means my body, which is in your behalf.
keep doing this in remembrance of me.
" 25 he did the same with the cup also, after they had the evening meal, saying: "this cup means the new covenant by virtue of my blood.
I will be there, looking joyful, putting on quite the 'good JW' show. Just another mindless meeting, and the social aspect afterwards will make the evening worth it.
SL
is it just me or does anyone else see more newbies joining this site this past year and especially in the last few months .. we would love to welcome you with genuine friendship ,support ,encouragement ,a place to vent ,and not judge you.. you have the freedom to express whatever view you like and you won`t be kicked off the board.. and to learn more about the "truth" about the truth , you will not hear at a kingdom hall .. smiddy.
I have seen more leaving than coming in. Young ones are exiting at alarming rates. TTATT is out and everywhere, so resistance is futile.
SL
